Which Reminds Me......

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Learning

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Author: Maggie Huffman, Sonoma, CA

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I'm an introvert. I knew that I was an introvert long before the shelter in place started. I already work from home most of the time. I thought that, while uncomfortable, I'd be fine for the duration. Maybe I'd even enjoy not needing an excuse to isolate, and not feeling guilty for choosing to pass on a social event.

I learned that even introverts like me need social contact - way more contact than I thought I needed. I learned how precious a smile is. I miss smiles, because they're pretty much covered up by masks now. But there's still eye contact, and some smiles do make it all the way to the eyes. I am making sure that my smiles are big enough to reach my eyes now, because I am sure that there are others who miss smiles, too.

Which reminds me...I learned how much I need to be able to do things for other people. I started doing one thing a day - at least - and keeping track. I've learned that it is the best way for me to get out of my own head!

Which reminds me...I've learned that I really am responsible for my own emotions and mental health. When there is no one else around to blame things on, it's pretty obvious that I need to look in the mirror.

Which reminds me...I've learned that I really am not a day pajama person. I need to get fully dressed for work so that I feel professional and respectable and good about myself...in my t-shirt and leggings. Or sweatshirt and leggings, depending upon the weather. But I always put on shoes and a bra.

Which reminds me...I have plenty of clothes. I learned that I don't need a new spring or summer wardrobe. Last summer's capri leggings will do just fine.

Which reminds me...I have learned that I have no interest in being a minimalist or doing major decluttering of my home. I love my stuff. I've collected it for a reason. It makes me happy.

Which reminds me...a house swallow built a nest on my front porch light and so far has laid 5 eggs. I am watching the progress and looking forward to the birth of the chicks. I'm taking discreet pictures and sharing with my friends and family. We are all researching the details and interested in the lives of beings that we barely had time to notice before the virus. The nest makes me happy.

I've learned that when the world isn't all awesomeness and ease, simply being a little bit happy can go a very long way.